Developing Healthy Coping Skills ARE CRUCIAL IN Recovery
Developing healthy coping skills helps us learn how to confront our problems head-on to reduce stress, not just avoid it. Good coping skills are key to cultivating good mental health and finding long term success in recovery.
What Is Mental Health?
Life is full of challenges that have the potential to overwhelm us and upset the balance of our mental state. We all experience hardships at times and it is normal for these to cause difficult emotions like sadness, frustration, and anxiety. Having good mental health doesn’t mean never being upset or going through hard times. It means being able to experience adversity and then having the resilience to bounce back. Just as physically healthy people are better able to recover from an injury or illness, people with strong mental health are better able to handle stress, overcome challenges, maintain and build strong relationships, and recover from difficulties and setbacks.
Developing Healthy Coping Skills
We know that one of the main contributing factors leading to substance abuse is a lack of healthy coping skills. Dr. Norman Chazin, a forensic psychiatrist and leader in addiction medicine, describes coping skills as any behavior a person employs to try to manage the stress in their life. Coping skills can be broken down into two categories: adaptive and maladaptive.
Adaptive coping skills increase our functioning while decreasing our perceived level of stress. They include things like:
Exercise
Meditation
Sleep
Journal writing
Maladaptive coping skills only relieve symptoms temporarily, and they do not address the root causes of stress. Maladaptive coping skills can include any avoidance behaviors such as:
Using alcohol
Using drugs
Gambling
Social withdrawal
Developing healthy, adaptive coping strategies is one of the most important components of building good mental health and succeeding long term in recovery. Learning how to actually cope with stress and not just avoid it allows us to face our challenges and lessen their negative impacts in our lives. We can even begin to use hardships as an opportunity to learn and grow. Most importantly for recovery, learning to cope with stress in healthy ways replaces those avoidance behaviors, like drinking and using drugs, which only ever made our problems worse.
Just like physical health, good mental health must be practiced and cultivated over time. We don’t expect to have good physical health without exercising, eating well, and getting enough sleep. These healthy habits accumulate over time and add up to good health. The same goes for developing good mental health. Developing and practicing healthy coping skills adds up over time helping us to become more resilient and able to take on stress when life gets tough.
6 Healthy Coping Skills To Deal With Stress
1. Exercise
Studies show that exercise releases endorphins, the body’s natural feel-good hormones. Getting regular aerobic exercise has been shown to reduce tension, elevate and stabilize mood, and improve self-esteem.
2. Sleep
Getting enough sleep at night causes the body to reduce its production of stress hormones. The brain chemicals associated with deep sleep are the same ones that tell the body it’s okay to calm down.
3. Therapy
A trained mental health professional can provide a fresh perspective on issues in your life. Therapy helps you better understand your own emotions and learn ways to work through stressors and challenges in a healthier way.
4. Meditation
Meditation is an excellent coping tool for life’s challenges. It can be a quick fix to help you calm down and get centered in stressful moments. And it can also be a daily practice that builds long term mental health and resilience to stress.
5. Community
Spending time with people who support and share your healthy habits is vital to maintaining them. Good friends and supportive family members are people who will be there to listen when life’s inevitable challenges come up. Building strong relationships with positive people who share your desire to cope in healthy ways will help reinforce your sober lifestyle and successful recovery.
6. Attend Meetings
Attending 12 step meetings is an essential coping strategy for anyone in recovery. AA and NA meetings provide fellowship with others who can relate to your experience of addiction and recovery. Meetings are a place where you can open up about your feelings when life gets tough. They also allow you to learn from the experiences of others who have developed healthy coping skills to deal with stress without turning to drugs and alcohol.
Learn Healthy Coping Skills at Legacy Healing Center
At Legacy Healing Center, our approach to addiction treatment addresses root causes and facilitates fundamental and lasting change. Helping our patients learn healthy coping skills builds good mental health and resilience, allowing them to cope with stress without turning to drugs and alcohol. To learn more about our approach and how we can help you change your life for good, call today! (888) 534-2295
What are adaptive vs. maladaptive coping skills in addiction recovery?
Adaptive coping skills, like exercise, meditation, and journaling, actively reduce stress and strengthen mental health over time. Maladaptive coping skills, such as using alcohol, drugs, or social withdrawal, only relieve discomfort temporarily and do not address the root causes of stress.
Why is good mental health so important for long-term sobriety?
When recovering from addiction, mental, emotional, and physical ability to cope with stress and grief may be lower than normal, especially for those who previously relied on drugs or alcohol to manage unpleasant emotions.
How does exercise help as a coping skill in recovery?
Exercise releases endorphins and helps reduce tension, stabilize moods, and improve self-esteem and sleep habits, making it an optimal coping mechanism for stress. Staying physically active also helps manage cravings and reduces the risk of relapse.
How does sleep support addiction recovery?
Sleep is one of the most underrated coping tools in recovery. Getting adequate rest causes the body to reduce its production of stress hormones, and the brain chemicals associated with deep sleep are the same ones that signal the body to calm down, directly supporting emotional regulation and reducing vulnerability to cravings.
Can attending 12-step meetings really count as a coping skill?
Absolutely. Being an active member in group therapy or meetings links a person with others who are experiencing the same cravings, and attending meetings or therapy sessions keeps a person on track and helps deal with negative feelings.
How long does it take to build healthy coping skills in recovery?
Coping skills offer a framework for healthy social-emotional development that can be applied across many different life situations, but people who don’t learn and practice them early may face increasingly difficult circumstances without the tools to make healthy choices. With consistent practice, these skills gradually become second nature, but it’s an ongoing process, not a one-time achievement.
Medically Reviewed by:
Dr. Ash Bhatt MD. MRO
Quintuple board-certified physician and certified medical review officer (AAMRO) with 15+ years of experience treating addiction and mental health conditions. Read More…
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Valerie Puffenberger is a board-certified psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner (PMHNP-BC). She is passionate about providing quality, compassionate, and comprehensive mental health services to her patients. Areas of specialty include: depress ion, anxiety, dual diagnosis. She possesses strong clinical skills enhanced by natural ability to build rapport with patients. She follows evidence-based guidelines blended with clinical experience,
Phyllis Rodriguez, PMHNP-BC
Psychiatric-Mental Health Advanced Practice Registered Nurse
Phyllis Rodriguez is a board-certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner (PMHNP-BC) with a strong commitment to helping individuals reclaim their lives from addiction. With specialized training in substance use disorders and co-occurring mental health conditions, she takes a holistic, compassionate approach to care.
Dr. Ash Bhatt, MD, MRO
Chief Medical Officer
Dr. Ash Bhatt, MD, MRO is a quintuple board-certified physician and certified medical review officer (AAMRO) bringing over 15 years of experience treating substance use disorders and co-occurring mental health conditions. Dr. Bhatt is board certified in Brain Injury Medicine, Addiction Medicine, Preventive Medicine, Adult Psychiatry, and Child & Adolescent Psychiatry by the ABMS.
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